I realize I’ve referred to our year ahead as a “small and
affordable vacation”. In
comparison to what I thought the future would hold as I daydreamed in my
twenties this statement is true. I saw us jet-setting around
the world babies in tow, learning foreign languages, driving a rust free car…you
know, those “when-I’m-a-real-grown-up” dreams.
A decade later, that didn’t happen.
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Old pencils, sharpened and arranged to look like new! |
The truth is that home schooling is not so affordable. I find myself wishing for some of that school
tax money back as I fork out for math text books and theater tickets and now
that the “official” school year has begun I’m getting emails from all sorts re:
classes for home schoolers. They sound
fun and they’d force us out of the house and I’m eager to sign up, but there’s
the money question.
A couple of recent articles interviewing home schoolers have
sparked my interest in discussing the affordability of home schooling. The families interviewed are able to
pay for their home school kids to attend multiple lessons outside of the home
and in one case even pool together with another family to hire outside help to
facilitate a home school co-op. Yep, that’s
not me. Maybe I'm wrong but I don't think all home schoolers necessarily have "money". If you live in our
lovely state and can raise a family on one
income you are way ahead of the game.
And I don’t claim that we can do it.
So far I have spent the following on home school…
$88 for 1st & 5th grade workbooks,
tests and reviews for the entire school year
$120 for tickets for the family to attend 4 matinee
performances at our local theater over the school year
$50 general paper supplies and I expect this to increase
fast as we start to use up art supplies we already have and purchase new ones.
Of course the big money deficit is what we are missing now that I
only work per diem.
That may or may not seem reasonable depending on your point
of view. And point of view is what it
all boils down to. If you are like me,
and I’ll admit I am overly curious, I
am interested to know how other people are doing “it”. I am the type of person would be quite happy
to discuss the intricacies of your grocery shopping list and budget. I am entertained by children who come to our
house and naturally want to poke through our fridge. Of course, who on earth is as interesting as
other people? Not to be immodest but I’m
sure folks are wondering, as I have about others, how we plan to pull off home
schooling when school provides the care for our kids so we can earn.
Money is that odd concept that
we all have very specific views on, views that may seem like madness to the
next person.
How are we going to do it?
Well, we’re taking a gamble. We’re gambling that we can take on some debt
and risks now in order to enjoy our youth and our kids, since, let’s face it,
this youth and young family thing will end.
And because however far away fleeing
the nest seems...it’s getting closer everyday.
We spend money on time; in other words we lose money by not
working so that we can have time with our kids.
Some of the places we save would probably make some squirm…
2nd hand clothes…I don’t mean Salvation
Army-that’s ritzy, they have price tags now!
I’m talking church basements.
Eat out almost never, that includes coffee at gas stations.
2nd hand furniture
No cable
Hats in winter…I mean indoors.
What we spend big bucks on
Our mortgage
Our food and drink
Sailing
Being home with the kids
I had an instructor in nursing school who used to say “stay
in your own lane in the pool”, she was referring to fear of bad grades but it
works for money too. It is next to impossible
not to, but I try not to compare myself to anyone else. It’s an uphill battle, especially when it
comes to money. But it just isn’t a
linear process, money and feelings about money are too complicated. Maybe you can pick up some tips from others but that’s
about it. It’s going to be a lean year
and I hope we can catch up when it’s done.
I’m thinking a lot of art with found objects….